I wish I had a clever way to tie that in, but I don’t. I just like that song.
I realized this morning that I haven’t really posted an update (which would be nice for all the people who read my blog to see how I am.)
I’m ok. I have hair. It is red. I’d post a picture but I can’t find the camera. (I will be really sad if I lost it.) I ache a lot. Who knows why. Could be tons of reasons. I ached before I knew I had cancer. I had an ultrasound of my thyroid done because it was enlarged and bugging me. Haven’t heard anything yet so I’m going with the “No news is good news” cliche. I’ve been on Tamoxifen for a while. Weirdly enough I’ve started having hot flashes again. Again. Don’t know why. Lucky me.
I have a lymphedema evaluation on Monday. I think we caught it pretty early. So that’s good. Who knows. I’ll know more on Monday. I’m at pretty high risk for it. I’m a big girl. I had the axillary node dissection. I had radiation where the nodes used to be. I have a 3 year old that still wants to be picked up. All those things factor in to risk. Lucky me.
Cancer things aside, I’ve been a busy girl. Play-dates for the kids, accompanying gigs (which actually led to another one in April. Woo!), trying to do some volunteering. Basically trying get my life organized. I’m not an organized person by nature. Which is weird. I totally thought I was. But I’m not. As it turns out, my mother is a totally organized person and I sponged/modeled myself after her when I was a kid. Left to my own devices, I’m pretty fly by the seat of my pants. So I’m trying to channel my mother. I would try to channel my mother in law because she keeps an immaculate house, but I think I need to start with baby steps. I did take 3 bags of clothes to the G0odwill. It’s a start.
In my pursuit of being greener, I quit buying paper napkins. I replaced them with cloth napkins from the dollar spot at Target and bandannas from Hobby Lobby. Once I had enough to have a rotation with the laundry, I find I don’t miss them much. I still use paper towels, but I’m working on that as well. 🙂
But mostly, PirateCancerMommy is in the closet on a poorly organized shelf; taken down only when I have to see the oncologist or late at night when I can’t sleep. Instead I have been doing the things I couldn’t do last year.
Lucky me. 🙂
PS. My heart and prayers go out to Lisa’s family and friends this week. She was a wickedly funny lady and I miss her already.
12 responses to “Everybody’s got something to hide, except me and my monkey.”
Sarah S.
March 5th, 2009 at 15:20
It is always good to have nothing to report! 🙂
beeeeeeeeeee
March 5th, 2009 at 17:08
Maybe if we used cloth napkins my daughter wouldn’t get beaned in the head with paper napkins at the grocery store.
Do you every play at weddings and receptions? I have a friend who is getting married in September and is on a budget and is looking for someone to play at her ceremony and for a a while at her reception. Any thoughts about that?
cheryl stouff
March 5th, 2009 at 17:15
Now that I am busy taking care of my grandkids, 2 and 4, I realize how busy you must be, and as far as I know, I don’t have cancer. Take care, may everyday bring you a little more sunshine and less rain………
Aftercancer
March 5th, 2009 at 18:01
I think we’re twins! Your description sounds like me, a big girl, red hari, young kids, lymphadema. BTW do you have a compression sleeve? You should be able to get one and then you can slap that puppy on when you notice any changes. So far it has worked for me.
alison
March 5th, 2009 at 19:11
thanks for the update, it’s always good to know how you are.
lucky you with the red hair. mine came back blonde for a while, but it’s back to normal now. well, except for the curly part. damn i hate that!
Nicole
March 5th, 2009 at 19:28
🙂 My hair came back blonde, and then it turned brown again. So I dyed it. Heh.
Katie
March 6th, 2009 at 17:45
Hey, I have red hair too!!! Glad to hear you didn’t lose yours – don’t you wonder what it would come back like? 🙂 And, glad to hear you are doing ok. I keep thinking I should have a big ol’ martini or something tonight in honor of the cancercersary, but they just announced that any drinking increases risk for breast cancer. How much does that suck?
Anyway, have yourself a great weekend! (When’s your 1-year or did you pass it already?)
lydee
March 8th, 2009 at 14:25
congrats on the music gigs! i’ll bet they’re fun too!
Christie
March 9th, 2009 at 11:00
Thanks for the post. Since we don’t get to see much of you at KK anymore, it’s nice to hear how things are going. Miss you, love you.
Nancy McCarroll
March 10th, 2009 at 10:55
Just stumbled onto your blog from a Ravelry thread somehow. I’m following you now. Check out www. ymphadivas.com for cool compression garments; it makes life easier and pls don’t pick up your kiddo!!!
Nancy McCarroll
March 10th, 2009 at 10:56
http://lymphedivas.com/ is the correct link!!
RecycleCindy
March 10th, 2009 at 19:06
Nicole,
So glad to see you come over to my site and leave a comment. I am amazed by how you and I have so much in common with our cancer treatments and current situations. I hope you can overcome your lymphedema and survive Tamoxifen. The good news is our hair. While mine is still very short, I have been surprised by it coming in curly. So glad to hear about your red hair. How wonderful for red hair. Take care and God bless,
Cindy